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Simple Joy–A Video

Rich Dixon — Sat, 13 Nov 2010 12:00:32 +0000

This week’s been about SIMPLE. We’ve looked at these topics if you want to catch up:

What’s simpler than a boy and his dog?

This video captures a big part of what I’m trying to say. The dog looks and behaves very much like Monte, and this is how I feel when I’m with him.

Note: The video pops up a note that it can only be viewed directly on YouTube. Sorry for the inconvenience–it’s worth the extra step.

If you can’t see the video, click here to view the video on my site.

Another note about simple:

Last Saturday I wrote a bit about blogs. If you’re thinking that you can’t possibly follow one more site without losing your mind, you might consider using an RSS reader. It’s easy to set up, and you get the content in a single place that’s simple to manage.

Michael Hyatt explains the process of starting a reader from the ground up. I encourage you to check it out. If you’re interested in leadership, I’d also encourage you to make Michael’s blog your second subscription—right after Bouncing Back.

Eyes On The Prize

Rich Dixon — Fri, 12 Nov 2010 12:00:20 +0000

Have you ever seen the sport of curling?

Curling, like most games, incorporates complex strategies and techniques, but the basic idea is pretty simple. The object, like other similar games (Crokinole and Shuffleboard), is to score points by getting your team’s markers closer to the target.

These games typically involve three main tactics:

Slide your own stone as close as possible to the target
Place one of your stones strategically to block the target from the other team
Hit an opponent’s stone to move it away from the target

All three tactics are important, but inexperienced players tend to become obsessed with the last two—and especially with #3. They focus so much on the opponent’s moves that they lose sight of the objective.

The first requirement is getting your own stone near the target.

See the principle? We can become so involved with what others are doing (that’s mostly out of our control) that we forget to concentrate on our own skills, thoughts, and actions.

The game is complex, but the objective is pretty simple. Often, however, we over-think and add layers of complication. I think life’s like that.

I think it’s part of what Jesus was getting at in this familiar scripture:

“Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? How can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when all the time there is a plank in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye.” [Matthew 7:3-5]

Perhaps He’s telling me to develop my own character (which I control) rather than fussing about the character of others.

Does that mean I shouldn’t care about others?

No! I sincerely wish to encourage positive behavior and confront wrongs. But I think Jesus points to the most effective strategy for helping others to be their best.

Jesus was a leader. He knew His destination and His path. He didn’t force or coerce; He used words and actions that inspired others to follow.

What if:

I focus on doing right rather than changing others?
I help those who “get it” and stop worrying about those who don’t? (How To Expand Your Circle)
My life—thoughts, words, behaviors—sparks curiosity and inspires people to learn more?
I made sure I always looked through clear eyes?

I think I’d be a lot more effective. I think I’d be less frustrated and angry. I think I’d be calmer and more at peace.

I think life would be a lot simpler. Probably not easier, but simpler.

Do you agree? Where do you get so focused on what others are doing that you lose sight of the goal?

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Become Like Children

Rich Dixon — Tue, 09 Nov 2010 12:00:21 +0000

What does it mean to follow Jesus?

Personally, I think I make it harder than He intended.

This week I’m thinking about simple. I have a nagging feeling that we make a lot of things harder than they need to be. I don’t want to ignore life’s harsh realities, but I’d like to see if there are some places where my attitudes increase the harshness.

I’m convinced that I can be simple without being simplistic. I’m certain that many issues are complex but not necessarily complicated (Complex Simplicity).

He called a little child to him, and placed the child among them. And he said: “Truly I tell you, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. [Matthew 18:2-3]

“…become like little children.” Jesus tells me to be childlike.

Maybe that’s another useful distinction: childlike versus childish.

What comes to mind when you think of childlike? I thought of things like:

Trusting
Open heart
Creative
Inquisitive
Accepts at face value
Not afraid to try new things

Childish evokes different images:

Self-centered
Temper tantrums
Mine!
Why?
Do I have to?

Jesus loves me. Childlike knows exactly what that means.

Children are expected to be both childish and childlike.

Adults have a choice.

What’s your biggest obstacle to being a bit more childlike?

This idea was inspired by some thoughts from Seth Godin. If you like short, thought-provoking commentary, I recommend checking out his blog.

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Complex Simplicity

Rich Dixon — Fri, 25 Sep 2009 15:01:30 +0000

“Teacher, which is the greatest commandment in the Law?” Jesus replied: ” ‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’ This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments.” [Matthew 22:36-40]

A couple of weeks ago, Becky and I visited a gorgeous historic hotel in the Colorado mountains.

Designers restored and modernized this majestic treasure, including remarkable accessibility, while maintaining its unique charm. In one spot a small patio sits at the bottom of a steep slope with stunning views of surrounding landscapes. At the top of the slope, neatly hidden from sight, is a modern parking lot. The challenge: how to allow visitors to change levels without destroying the beauty of this secluded oasis.

A simple set of steps solves the problem for most folks, but they’d be an intrusion on the natural environment and wouldn’t allow easy access for all. Instead, architects created a curving, gently-pitched path that winds down the hill. Benches, trees, and strategically-placed colorful plants guide visitors to the bottom along a series of small pools connected by bubbling waterfalls. The solution is simple and elegant and enhances the space.

It’s the perfect answer to a difficult problem. Someone worked hard to create this unobtrusive, peaceful complexity that almost disappears into the background.

Simple—but not simplistic. Complex—but not complicated.

In the scripture above, Jesus is asked for the first priority in His teaching, and I don’t think the first word He spoke was an accident. “Love …” The answer is so simple. Like that gentle path on a steep hillside, He distills centuries of scholarship into a single word. “Love …”

And we reply, “Yeah, but …”

You can almost hear their response. “Love? You want us to solve everything with love? You have no idea how complicated our lives can be. It’s just not that easy!”

And He smiles gently and says, Really? You think I don’t understand?

When we encounter adversity, pain, grief, and unbearable despair, life seems much too complicated for such a simplistic response. We need a pragmatic answer, something that works in the real world. When the past covers you with a blanket of shame and guilt, the present spins out of control, and the future looms in darkness devoid of direction, Jesus doesn’t seem to get how impossible it all seems.

And He smiles gently and points to the cross. He gets it.

When God first greeted Adam and Eve in the garden, He pointed to the wonderful complexity of all He’d created. His command was simple. Live in loving relationship with each other and with Me. Enjoy it all, but don’t mess with this one tree.

Their disobedience cluttered the world with the complications of sin and polluted God’s simple design. He made it complex—we made it complicated.

Jesus gets it, and He still stands and points to the cross.

“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.” [Matthew 11:28-30]

Easy? Light? Rest? What about all of that theology and religion, the books and the study? And what about all of the junk that the world dumps on us, not to mention our own mistakes and failures? What’s so light and easy about any of that?

And He smiles gently. The religion, theology, and sin aren’t His stuff. That’s all ours, the product of our own silly attempts to do it our way. In fact, I love the way this passage is expressed in The Message:

“Are you tired? Worn out? Burned out on religion? Come to me. Get away with me and you’ll recover your life. I’ll show you how to take a real rest. Walk with me and work with me—watch how I do it. Learn the unforced rhythms of grace. I won’t lay anything heavy or ill-fitting on you. Keep company with me and you’ll learn to live freely and lightly.”

Jesus lived simply, but His message certainly isn’t simplistic. He doesn’t promise an easy life; in fact, His life was hard precisely because He chose the simple truth of love.

But my way’s hard too, and seems only to surround me only with more and more levels of complicated, tangled messes that become ever more snarled as I struggle to free myself. Jesus didn’t design this jumbled confusion, but He does understand it. He lived it, and He knows the only effective escape strategy.

The simple question isn’t whether He understands. He does. The only question is whether I believe enough to trust His elegantly uncomplicated guidance.

And I echo the man from Mark 9: I do believe; help me overcome my unbelief.

And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love. [1 Corinthians 13:13]

Faith, hope, and love. Simple—but not simplistic. Complex—but not complicated.

What’s an aspect of your life that seems overwhelmingly complicated? Does any of this make sense in that circumstance?

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